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Online vs. In-Person Grief Therapy: Which Is Right for You?

Both online and in-person grief therapy are effective — but one may suit your situation better. Here's a straightforward comparison to help you decide.

By Victoria Holmes

April 23, 20261 min read
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Both online and in-person grief therapy are effective — but one may suit your situation better. Here's a straightforward comparison to help you decide.

What Online Grief Therapy Offers

  • Accessible from any location
  • No commute or parking
  • Greater scheduling flexibility
  • Often lower per-session cost
  • Useful for those with social anxiety or mobility challenges

Where In-Person Therapy Has the Edge

  • Better for severe grief requiring close monitoring
  • Some therapeutic techniques (EMDR, somatic therapy) work better in person
  • Easier to read non-verbal cues for some clients
  • No technology barriers

What the Research Says

Multiple studies have found that telehealth therapy produces outcomes equivalent to in-person therapy for grief, depression, and anxiety. The American Psychological Association's guidance supports telehealth as a first-line option for most patients.

Cost and Insurance

Online therapy is often less expensive because therapists have lower overhead. Most major insurers cover telehealth therapy at the same rate as in-person visits. Always confirm your specific plan's telehealth benefits before booking.

Our Recommendation

If access, cost, or scheduling is a barrier to getting help, choose online therapy without hesitation. The best therapy is the therapy you actually attend. If you have a strong preference for in-person connection and have access to a specialist locally, that's a valid reason to choose it.

About the practitioner

Victoria Holmes

Victoria Holmes

Birth & Death Doula

15 years at the beginning and end of life. She will sit bedside with the dying, be with your family in the room, and stay when everyone else goes home.

Victoria’s practitioner profile

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